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What it takes to fall in love

Falling in love is heavenly, delightful, and glorious. It is limitless, confusing, unjustifiable, incomparable and intense. To fall in love is to feel everything inside you burn with sincerity and passion and all you want to do is to never let go of the person whom you fell for. When you fall in love, it makes you feel as if you are experiencing an awakening to the best parts of your existence and it is as if your whole life depends on the person who is in front you.

 

Anyone could fall in love with someone who they have a connection with, love does not choose people. Love comes to the rich and the poor, to the young and the old, to the men and the women, love does not look at the age, the social status and the gender of the person but it sees from within and so everyone has the capability to fall in love.

 

To be honest, we have the power to fall in love everyday, be it with strangers, with our partners and with our former flames. We can always go back to the first day when our eyes first met and our hands first touched and experience again that wonderful feeling, those butterflies in our stomachs and those smiles on our faces that never seem to leave when you are with that special someone. You just have to relive that moment and let your emotions take over in order to fall in love again, with the same person or with another person, it doesn’t really matter. Make yourself want to experience falling in love again as it is one of the greatest feelings in this world.

 

So how can you exactly fall in love with people?

 

1. Ask them questions that are genuinely from the bottom of your heart. Ask about their dreams, their fears, their passions like what they love to do on Sundays or what their favorite restaurant is or what they would like to achieve by the age of 40. Ask question that will let you know a lot about them.

 

2. Open up and tell them about yourself. Love is a give and take process, you learn something new from them, then let them know another fact about you. Let yourself be vulnerable every once in a while. Remember that softhearted people are easier to love as they are willing to make themselves known and that they are ready to get hurt and forgive those who have hurt them.

 

3. Allow yourself to be excited about things because that is what makes love so thrilling, the excitement and the enthusiasm of seeing, being with and doing things with the person that you love.

 

4. Travel around the world with the person that you love. Or if not the world, visit your countries local provinces and learn more about your culture. Seeing things and experiencing things together is a great way to know more about the person.

 

5. Plan your time together, like prepare the things that you need, book a flight or a restaurant, it doesn’t really matter what you do as long as you are with the person whom you have fallen in love with. Be in charge and make sure that you let them know and feel that you care about them and that you want to spend a lot of time with them.

 

6. Support each other, even if you do not really dig what they’re passionate about. Your partner loves to play basketball? Go, support and cheer for him even if you think that basketball courts are smelly and hot. Your partner loves to watch theatrical plays? Buy her the tickets and come with her even if you think theatrical plays are boring. It is not about pretending to like what they love to do, but it is about enjoying the thing s that they love to do because you feel happy and content seeing the smiles on their faces while doing it.

 

7. Let them know of your true colors. How? Never pretend to be someone you are not. You aren’t rich? Fine but do not pretend that you are, let them know that the money that you use to spoil him or her is money from your hard work. You aren’t a bad boy type of guy, but that is what she digs in? Do not pretend to be one. It is always nice to be true to yourself and to the person who is special to you. If he or she doesn’t accept the real you, then leave. That is not love if there is no acceptance involved.

 

8. Learn to listen. It’s always okay to talk and talk and talk about yourself, letting them know of what is on your mind every now and then. It is also okay to entertain your partner with jokes and makes them laugh but never forget to make your ears available for listening when he or she needs to open up or explain things. It will make your partner depend on you a little and trust you more.

 

9. Let the words “I love you”, “I’m proud of you”, “I’m sorry” and “Thank you” slip out of your mouth. Do not keep them within yourself as these words are better said and expressed than not. You will be surprised how much your partner appreciates you for this.

 

10. Know how to forgive. Forgiveness is something that a lot of people are having a hard time giving to those who have hurt them. It is indeed hard, especially if you got hurt so bad that it left you with a broken heart, broken mind and broken soul. But find it in yourself to forgive as it is not only for the other person’s benefit, but also for yourself. It is to allow yourself to move on and think positively so you can make better decisions and be happy in life.

Falling in love is a choice. You can keep yourself from exerting effort and showing that you care and just be content to being alone in this world. But this won’t make you happy. If you allow yourself to fall in love with a person, there is a big possibility that you will be eternally blissful and content while conserving that love that you have. You also have a choice to fall in love again and again and again with the same person. Never let go and make sure that the fire is still burning within yourselves.

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