Is It Just a Fling?

How long was his last relationship?
a. They've never had a relationship. You are their first so they kind of gets awkward or unsure about what to do next.
b. They dated for a month or two.
c. You are actually clueless about their last affairs and they're not giving you the cue into knowing their life’s business.
d. It seems like their relationships tend to last for quite a while, or they only date people he think they will last with.

How do they kiss you?
a. They just can’t get enough of you.
b. Passionately, pulls away to look into your eyes and kisses you again.
c. Awkwardly kisses you and tries to talk about a different subject afterwards.
d. We haven't kissed yet.

What do you usually do when you are out together?
a. Hold hands, talk about a lot of things, kiss and enjoy every moment.
b. Make out but do not have any intimate moments or talks. That’s just not your thing.
c. You two are purely physical. What else is there to do?
d . There is a bit of flirting, as if they want to do more, but it feels a little awkward in public.

If you are not together, what do you do instead?
a. Regularly text or call the other to get updates on what you two are doing and the likes.
b. Go out with friends and enjoy stuffs you do like catching a movie or having bowling night.
c. You are actually not speaking. The making out resumes when you see each other. That’s the entire setup.
d . Talk from time to time, but nothing too serious. Don't want to seem clingy after all.

What do they usually do immediately after kissing?
a. Stick around, find some great activities you can do together like watching a movie or just sit and talk about anything under the sun.
b. Awkwardly lingers for a little while longer and eventually calls it a night and leave.
c. Conveniently receives a text message about an urgent situation at home and goes out the door before you knew it.
d. We've never kissed before.

What would they do on your birthday?
a. Go all out and buy you the most special gift you would ever receive on your birthday.
b. Greet you a casual happy birthday or just leave the message on your phone, Facebook wall or anywhere convenient to them.
c. Totally forgets about your birthday and when they realise, ask if you would want to “celebrate” later.

How do you react if you see each other in the workplace or school?
a. They would definitely stop by, talk to you until your lunch break is over and asks if you could see each other later.
b. Just say hi in passing but never take the time to stop and talk or catch up.
c. Stops for a little bit of friendly small talk, and then carries on their way.
d. Casually give each other the head nod and go your separate and merry way.

What do their close friends think of or say about you?
a. They only have good things to say about you. After all, they feed them the information almost every time they hang out.
b. They don’t have much to say about you. Sure they are friendly but you don’t hang out in the same group and you seldom see each other. So what is there to talk about?
c. Their friends do not even know you exist in their world. You even found out they're trying so hard to keep your “thing” a top secret.

If you are feeling uncomfortable, e.g. cold or not feeling well, what does he initially do?
a. Gives you their sweatshirt and does everything they can just to make you feel better and more comfortable.
b. Clumsily and reluctantly offers their jacket or drape it over your shoulder.
c. Regardless of the ailment, they give you cuddles to make you feel better.
d. Doesn’t mind if you are cold or not feeling well or what. They would still insist you “heat things up” to make you feel better.

How frequently do you keep in touch if you are far from each other?
a. All the time. It’s not possible you would not know what he is doing or he you. You just have to keep each other updated no matter what.
b. Every now and then. Probably a couple times every week just to say hi or catch up with whatever is happening to each other.
c. Never. They would only text or call you if they want to “hang out” with you.